What Do Older Women Want From Dating Websites? 

Women that have previously been married, have kids, own a home and can provide for themselves don’t need a man to take care of them. 

They want somebody to make her feel like a woman, to pay compliments and make them feel special. They want a man to listen when they speak, and  they want to put passion back in the bedroom. 

Dating can often be nerve-wracking, but research shows that dating an older woman is not as intimidating as it is with younger girls

When women are younger, they typically feel vulnerable and nervous on a date. This energy can transfer to the guy, and unless you are super confident and secure in yourself, the date can fall flat. 


Older daters are more self-assured than their younger counterparts. They know what they like, what they want and have more interesting things to talk about. 


Dating mature women can be great for your sex life; especially if you’re a younger man looking for a mature woman.

However, not every older woman is comfortable being approached by younger men. I’ve read a report where an older woman on a regular dating site said she found it “creepy” and “unsettling” to be approached by younger men.

Dating sites that are geared towards mature women, on the other hand, are typically actively looking for younger men. And if you understand what women want from men they meet on dating apps, you increase your chances of a sex hookup.

How To Score In Online Dating 


Women are typically inundated by messages on dating websites. They are tired – and probably bored – with the standard “Heeey, how’s your day going?” 

If you want to get a woman to take notice of you on a dating app, you have to grab their attention. Most of all, don’t waste time with small talk, get straight to the point and ask them out on a date. 


Guys that ease their way in a test the waters generally end up drowning. Don’t forget, girls are probably already chatting to two or three other guys before you wave your digital hand. They don’t have time for general chit-chat with another one. 

Moreover, they are looking for a commitment – which means a date that will actually happen! 

To really impress a mature woman on a dating app, send her an invitation to an event. The time and date are already arranged for you and if you offer to buy the tickets (if required), she knows you’re not toying her. 

It also shows you can think for yourself and competent enough to organise a date. Women give men kudos for that alone. Event dates give her an incentive to say yes.

Sex hookups are not out the question on mature dating sites. Far from it. Divorcees in their 50’s and 60’s are not likely to be getting many offers to get laid. 

But join a mature dating website that caters towards older women. Not everyone over 50 on traditional dating apps will be up for it.

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